Getting married is a big step, you want to make sure you do it with the right person. We have listed some tips here to guide you choose the right person. The List is entirely the writer's opinion and are not in order of preference. 1. They are honest and trustworthy. You can test them without them knowing. 2. They are straightforward and uncomplicated. Someone that is not into game playing. Not deliberately making simple things complicated. 3. They understand the idea of give and take. 4. Supportive - Encourages you to be the best you can be.
5. Dependable - In good and bad times. You can always count on them.
6. Good listener, not argumentative.
7. Ignore past mistake and focuses on the future.
8. Don't compare you to their ex-partner. Understands that everyone is different and not wise to compare.
9. They backs their words up with action. Not just saying i love you.
10. Your core values align. This is important because it will make leaving together easier. Example, someone who believes keeping to time is important will be on time.
Contrary to someone who says 1pm and turns up 4pm.
11. Healthy conflicts - Sometimes you have differences, as long as you both disagree respectfully it is ok.
12. Hard working - Lazy people will manifest their laziness in many aspect of a relationship, this is not a good quality.
13. Emotionally stable - this is also very important. Someone that can handle ups and down without losing their temper/cool. Someone you can predict.
14. You make decisions together - Not someone Lording it over you or been manipulative.
15. Someone with a good heart, you have to be observant and overtime you can tell if they are.
16. Sense of Humour - this helps but i would not say this is critical. Goodluck